If you clearly define what you want you will surely get it. When you focus your energy upon some worthwhile goal, things which relate to it will start showing up in your surroundings. It had always been there, but you were not able to notice it because of your lack of focus.

A great method to know what you want is making a dream book. Write down your goals and dreams in that book and also paste relavent pictures of your dreams in each section. This will be one of the most paradigm shift of your whole life. See this book everyday before sleeping and after waking up.

“Dream, Dream, Dream,
Dreams give rise to thoughts,
Thoughts convert into actions.” - Abdul Kalam, President of India